Ladies Some Christian Dating Guidelines On How Sexy You Should Dress For A Date

I want to offer some Christian dating guidelines for women who find themselves worrying about what to wear for their Christian date. Christian women often worry about dressing too sexy for a date. You might have at one time or the other found yourself thinking "if I'm too sexy does it send out the wrong message" and asking yourself the question "how sexy can I be on dates"

The reason I want to share my Christian dating advice for women on this topic is because I was having a conversation with my wife the other day about some of the worries she had while we were dating, and she said that one of her major areas of worry was this issue about dressing appropriately for a date.

She said that she used to worry about keeping me attracted without making me lust, she wanted to be sexy but at the same time she didn't want to come across as cheap, and she was also worried that by covering everything up she might come across as boring and turn me off.

Reflecting on her words, I thought to myself that the world has done a lot of damage to women, even Christian women, because we have made women believe that the only way to be attractive is to expose your body and the only way to be sexy is to let it all hang out and the only way to get a guys attention is to expose your cleavage and wear clothes that hug your body verrrryyyyy tight.

But nothing could be further from the truth and that is why I want to give you ladies some Christian dating guidelines and advice about how to dress appropriately for a date with a Christian guy from a man's perspective.

I definitely agree that appearance does matter, at the end of the day you still want the guy to fine you attractive and there is nothing wrong with that, but there is a way to do it without making yourself look cheap in the process. The media might make it seem like you need to expose your body for a guy to be attracted to you but that simply isn't true.

Most guys don't really respect women that dress in a way that puts all their privacy on public display, in fact, the reason men tend to approach women that dress this way more than women that dress decent is because when you let it all hang out, you make yourself look cheap, easy and desperate and therefore a guy thinks you are an easy target in terms of getting you into bed. In most cases when you dress that way you will attract guys who have the wrong intentions and a real man with good intentions will probably not give you the time of day because he is looking for a good and decent girl.

Ladies there is a way to look attractive and sexy and still be decent. A man will respect you more when you keep it covered, you can keep it covered without looking boring and still look good and sexy and have him eating out of the palms of your hand.

Here are two perfect examples of Faith (my beautiful wife) keeping it covered but still looking sexy!

You just have to find the right kind of clothes that complement your figure, and just because a dress or a pair of jeans looks good on your friend or on a celebrity doesn't mean it will look good on you. You have to find outfits that work for you and look good on you.

Sometimes it is best to keep it simple:

A nice shirt on a knee length skirt if worn with the right jewelry and accessories and shoes and make up with the colors coordinating can be very sexy and attractive.

A simple blouse on a nice pair of jeans can equally be sexy if put together properly

Sexy isn't necessarily exposing everything, in fact that can be very distasteful.

You can get some really nice outfits for your date at stores like House of Fraser and Banana Republic

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