Ladies there are a few Christian dating principles you need to bear in mind when you are considering dating a guy or selecting a potential life partner. In this particular article I will be sharing one of those principles and the other principles will be shared in subsequent articles.
The first of the Christian dating principles is the Principle of Gods presence. Does this guy love the presence of God. Ladies you don't want a man that doesn't value the presence of God, you don't want a man that doesn't have any regard for the things of God. You don't want a guy that will compromise when it comes to the things of God.
The first place God placed the first man he created (Adam) was in the garden of Eden. Eden represented the presence of God, a place where God could come and fellowship with the man in the cool of the day.
You want a guy that loves to be in Gods presence, you want a guy that places value on the word of God because if he doesn't value Gods word then he won't value you or treat you right. You want a guy that would leave you behind if you are going to make him late for church lol! Not the one you have to drag to church.
When a guy truly loves God and has the fear of God you wont have to worry about him treating you right. I'm not talking about someone who pretends to love God or has a form of Godliness, but someone who truly values God (and that's not always the guys that appear to be super spiritual and are praying in tongues 24/7).
Take your time to study a guy that is interested in you. Don't get deceived by his form of Godliness, study him to make sure that he is not just putting up a front.
Out of all the Christian dating principles this is probably the most important. Many women date guys because of material things or because the guy is attractive even though the guy might not have the fear of God in him. When you date a guy who has no regard for the things of God, you are setting yourself up for heartbreak.
Some women love to date the bad boy, the guys that will mistreat and abuse them, personally I have never understood the logic behind that, if you date a bad boy you can only expect to get hurt right? But some women are under the impression that they can change this bad boy that they are dating. You as an individual cannot change anyone unless they want to change and are willing to let God change them.
If you want to get this dating thing right, then you must do it the way God intended and God's intention is for you to be with a man that is a lover of God and a lover of God's word and presence.
That is the kind of guy who will be a true husband to you in the future, that's the kind of guy that will love you as Christ loved the church, that's the kind of guy that will cherish and appreciate you, that's the kind of guy who won't put you on an emotional roller coaster, constantly starting and stopping the relationship, that's the kind of guy that won't pressurize you to sleep with him! He would have taken time to hear God first before even approaching you because he loves the presence of God.
And that is the kind of guy you need. Might not necessarily be the guy you want, but that's they type you need. The question however is do you deserve that kind of guy? But that's another question for another day (or another article.)
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