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Tips 4 Christian Dating, Issue #002 -- Stop The Games

Happy New Year! Wow! 2010 is here finally and I know it is going to be a great year for us all.

Okay, my dating tip for you this month of January 2010 as we enter the beginning of another decade is Stop The Games.

What games you might ask? the silly games that single people sometimes play that can make dating such a fraustrating experience.

You know what I mean, like when a girl gives a guy mixed signals just to confuse him and make him unsure about whether you are really interested or not. This can be cool at first to keep a guy on his toes and let him know you are not easy or cheap but if you overdo it, it might back fire and the guy might move on since he thinks you cant make up your mind.

Or when a guy keeps leading a girl on, taking her out, calling her all the time, making her feel like a serious romantic relationship will be birthed out of this close friendship or making her feel like there is more to your relationship than just friendship but then he never actually tells the girl that he wants to have a serious relationship and settle down with her so she is left guessing and unsure of where she really stands with him and if they are actually in a relationship or not.

I believe if people would just be honest about what they want, it would make dating so much easier and less fraustrating.

If you like her tell her,

if you want to be with him then dont make the chase too difficult for him,

if you're not sure you're ready for a serious relationship then dont waste his or her time.

Enough of the games already!

p.s. if you havent already done so, please check out my latest article entitled: Should A Woman Pay For Dates Or Should The Guy Always Pay?

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