About the Authors of This Website - Paul and Faith

We are Paul and Faith Ogunkoya. Although we are married it wasn't that long ago that we were Christian singles ourselves.

Faith and I have a wonderful relationship, when we first started dating we made sure we qualified each other first to make sure that we were right for each other. Although we were both attracted to each other (well initially I was more attracted to Faith than she was to me) we didn't want to base the courtship on attraction alone so we built a friendship first before taking it further into a courtship.

We established during the early stages of our courtship what our courtship and dating goals were, which was ultimately to get married. We didn't believe in casual relationships where two people are dating but are unsure whether it is actually going anywhere - I mean why waste each others time? So very early on after getting to know each other as friends we decided to start the courtship with the aim of getting married in the future.

People have always been challenged and inspired by our relationship and admire what we have and I say that sincerely without bragging. Our friends both married and single always believed in us and our relationship because they could see the sincerity and purity of the love that we have for each other and they desire the same thing. I must say however that a large part of the success of our relationship is because we listened to all the advice we received in church while we were dating as well as bought books on dating and attended singles seminars and implemented the things we learned.

We find that our single friends are always asking us questions like how did you know Paul was the right guy for you, or how did you know that Faith was the one. They ask us how we resolved challenges and resisted sexual temptations while we were courting.

We are constantly bombarded with questions from singles who know us and desire to one day have a relationship like ours and we try as much as we can to give them the same advice that helped us achieve what we have which is to do it Gods way and make God the center of your decisions in terms of who you choose and also the center of your relationship after you have chosen.

Knowing that we have a lot to offer the world in terms of Christian dating and relationship advice we decided to start this website to help others and offer guidance on how to approach Christian dating so that dating becomes a pleasant experience for singles and not one of regrets.

Because we have been there and understand and can relate to the challenges that Christian singles are going through we are able to deliver real advice to real situations, we are extremely practical and real in our approach and very down to earth and I guess that's why people appreciate our advice.

We talk about the things other people don't want to talk about, the real issues that Christian singles are facing and we do it without making people feel condemned because our aim is to empower and not judge.

So Thank you for visiting our website and we hope that you keep coming back as we continue to add more and more content to our website. in fact why not Subscribe to our blog to keep up with the latest updates and additions to this site and make sure you tell your single friends about us.

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