Advice for Christian Courting Dating Singles To Stop Playing Happy Families, You Are Not Yet Married

I want to advice Christian courting dating singles (for lack of a better term) not to play happy families until they say 'I do'. In fact this should be a Christian dating rule.

This is when a Christian brother and a Christian sister are courting but are behaving like they are already married. They begin to role play like they are already husband and wife when they haven't yet made any vows to each other.

They wear matching outfits, they hold hands and kiss, he calls her wifey and she calls him whatever the male equivalent of wifey is (someone tell me what it is if they know.) They are so close that some people even think they are already married and are shocked to find out that these two people are still just courting.

The sister is already cooking for the guy and ironing his clothes, in fact she practically lives at his apartment since she sleeps over there 3-4 nights in the week. They have already crossed all the boundaries and are sleeping together, but they have convinced themselves that it is okay because they are more or less married.

I have a question for the sister. Why would the guy buy the Cow if the milk if free? Don't sell yourself cheap. If you want to play happy families then let him put a ring on your finger and commit at the altar. I know its a strong message but its the truth.

what would happen if after doing all that, acting as if you are married just because you believe you are going to get married anyway, what happens if the relationship doesnt work out as you expected, you would have gotten all your hopes up and given yourself away cheaply for nothing.

if someone hasnt paid the price for you, they are not permitted to enojoy the pleasures of being with you, its all about the value you place on yourself. Other people might be doing it, living together, sleeping together and acting as if they were practically married even though they aren't, but you dont have to do it. It might be the popular thing in the world, to try before you buy, but that isnt how it works in the kingdom. In fact, statistics have shown that those who do the living together thing before marriage often dont make the transition into marriage, and even if they do, such marriages often times dont last.

I receive so many emails from ladies who cant understand why their boyfriend of many years refuses to marry them. They've given the guy everything, cook for him, clean his house, give him money, sleep with him, they think by doing that he will want to get married, but that is the actual problem. He drags his feet when it comes to marriage because he doesnt see why he should get married when he has already experience all you have to offer for free, so why should he pay the price of a wedding, going to the altar, makking vows etc when everything he would receive in return for that he is already getting for free?

Be wise, you are not married until you say "I do" resist the temptation of practicing playing house, keep yourself and maintain your value. If someone hasnt paid the price and sacrificed and forsaken all to be with you, then they dont qualify to enojoy the pleasures and benefits of being with you.

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