Another Atheist Says Kissing and Even Sex While Dating Is not wrong - Surprise Surprise!

by Kristi
(Michigan)

Look, by this reasoning, all Christian women should be running around in burqas. After all, looking leads to thinking about sex and that leads to kissing which leads to sex. Better just cover up everything with an excessive amount of cloth so nobody gets tempted.

The obsession of Christians and Muslims with virginity is demeaning to women. It sends the message that a woman's body belongs to her husband or future husband rather than totally to herself.

It also sends the message that men are dirty disgusting creatures that just can't keep it in their pants if women even show just a little too much skin. Hence the burqa.

What does it matter whether or not you've kissed someone? Or even, heaven forbid, had sex with them? There is nothing wrong with it and it is not something to be guilty about. All sex is is two people pleasuring each other physically. The only reason people feel guilty about it is because they spend time on websites like this that tell them that they are dirty, nasty creatures for doing something that is perfectly natural. (paul's comment I don't recollect ever telling anyone in any of my articles that they are "dirty" and "nasty creatures" I do encourage people to live pure and holy and live according to the word of God and if they have sinned they should repent and that God will forgive - please get your facts right and dont put words in my mouth. Anyways...)

Paul's Response

Well Kristi, thank you for your comment. I'm not at all surprised at your point of view because from the point of view of atheists and people that dont believe in God, there is no God and if there is no God then there is no need to please him. So I dont expect you to understand the Christian perspective on this because you arent one (and this after all is Dating Advice 4 Christian Singles - so what kind of advice did you expect to find? Worldly secular advice?? Common!) and therefore our beliefs wont make any sense to you, in fact it might even seem foolish to you but God uses the foolish things of this world to shame the so called "wise" - 1 corinthians 1:27.

As far as atheists and evolotionists are concerned we are no more than intelligent animals, and when you see yourself as an animal I guess you will behave like one, and sleep around like animals because afterall its just sex or as you put it "pleasuring each other"

Sex to Christians is sacred, something special, we are not dogs that just sleep around, we believe in the sanctity of sex as something created by God for those who are married to express their love to eachother and also as a blood covenant and seal to the marriage vows.

And how on earth is valuing virginity demeaning to women?? WHAT MADNESS, since when did encouraging women to value themselves and not cheapen themselves by giving it up to every TOM, DICK & HARRY become demeaning, and thats the problem I have with you guys, you dont believe in God and therefore dont value Gods laws and guidelines for life, as far as you guys are concerned anything goes, just like the satanists, you guys "do what thou wilt"
you live as you like, you do whatever pleases you, as long as it seems right to you, you do it. God calls this foolishness, in fact the bible refers to anyone that denies the existence of God as a fool (Psalm 14:1) and your reasoning is as far as God is concerned foolish.

If you guys are as intelligent as you claim to be, then you would understand that laws are created to protect. Everything created also comes with a set of laws or do's and don'ts not only to ensure the thing works properly, but also to protect it from damage. Thats why we have traffic laws for example so that drivers are protected and safe and when someone violates that law accidents happen. There are laws that govern the use of drugs so that people use them properly and dont overdose, there are laws that govern household appliances etc, everything that exists has a set of laws that govern it - we as human beings are no different.

God created us (whether you believe it or not) and also with our creation came a set of laws to protect us and make sure we function properly. Gods laws are not to harm us but actually because he loves us and wants to protect us, it is when we break his laws that accidents and harm begin to happen.

Unfortunately with the help of atheists and other organisations and schools of thought that have no value or appreciation for the laws of God, we are encouraged to break the very laws that are made to protect us and make our world a better place to live. No wonder sexually transmitted diseases are on the rise, no wonder abortion is on the rise, no wonder teenage pregnancy is on the rise, no wonder there is more crime because people have no respect for the very thing that was supposed to protect them, they are harming and destroying themselves in the name of "intelligence" and "freedom" to do as you please - yeah, you guys are really smart!

Your views as an atheist might seem right to you, it might seem harmless, afterall whats wrong with two consenting adults having sex outside marriage you might say, they arent hurting anyone - but God says "there is a way that seems right to a man but the end is destruction" - Proverbs 14:12.

Men disregarding God and doing what they like is why our world is so messed up, its why our young men have very little morals, thats why they go around killing each other, its why women commit abortion after abortion, they have no sense of value for human life because you atheists have told them in their science books that they are nothing but evolved ape's so they figure, if I kill another human being its not a big deal, afterall what's the value of an ape. God really have mercy on you guys for the damage you are doing to peoples minds, I really pray for you.

Your philosophies of doing what ever seems right to you is why our young people have no sense of value for their bodies, you guys encourage them to prostitute Gods temple, you fill their minds with films, music and images about sex, devaluing the sanctity of sex and marriage, no wonder, most of our young women now think its cool to dress like prostitutes, no wonder the increase in abortions and unplanned pregnancies - Your philosophies are ruining our world so dont you dare point your fingers at Christians.

Then you have the nerve to try and make me and others trying to help spread good morals out to be the bad guys, saying that the only reason people feel guilty about being sexually immoral is because they visit sites like these.

They rightly should feel guilty about displeasing God, its called repentance - but I guess you wouldnt know anything about that since your heart is so shut against God.

You know, my tone might sound angry but I'm really not angry with you, I actually pity you and feel sorry for you because you are so convinced in error, and you live by error. God loves you so much and desires that you'll be saved and come to know him as father and saviour, he wants to save your soul and you just keep rejecting and denying him, you live like there are no consequences, like when you die thats the end, you will be very shocked when death comes and you discover that God is real. You dont have to wait till death to know that he is real, you have an opportunity now!

What makes me laugh is that you guys (atheists) have some very intelligent arguements against the exixtence of God, you are so wise in your eyes and have gone to great lengths to prove there is no God, yet you cant even explain how you got into this world or how you grew in your mothers womb, how your heart formed, your lungs liver etc, yes you might know the science behind it but you really cant explain it, thats how smart you guys are, you behave like you created yourself, like you fashioned your own soul, body and mind, you argue so convincinly against a God that you dont even know and you try to tell us that have had tangible experiences with God, that have a relationship with God, that hear God and are directed by him that someone so real to us doesnt exist - How smart you are. God is more real to me than even you.

Those who God loves he chastens - take this as a chastening from God, love doesnt just accept everything because it doesnt want to offend, love rebukes and corrects, my correction and rebuke is made out of love, God wants you to come to him, repent and turn from your wicked ways. Do it now! before its too late.