Christian Dating Kissing Is Wrong - You Will Want More

by Naanzem
(Kafanchan, Kaduna, Nigeria)

I feel its wrong cos when you start kissing you will want to go further. i feel it better to avoid it and wait. I'v done it before and never liked the feeling after it and for me it was just a kiss but before i knew it i wanted more.

Paul's addition

I think the key thing is to be honest with yourself, you know what your limits are, you know your areas of strength and weakness, you know what you can handle and what you cant. There is no point deceiving yourself that you can handle it and that the kissing wont go any further when you know that your flesh is weak and you will want more.

Initially it always starts innocent and you are able to exercise some level of control over your sexual urges to take things further than just kissing, but I feel that the more you practice passionate kissing, the further you want to push the boundaries, kissing is no longer enough and your hands want to start exploring parts of each-others bodies.

Thats when I start getting questions from Christian singles who visit my website like how far is too far? or is oral sex fornication since intercourse didn't take place? - this is evidence that Christian singles are pushing the boundaries further and further and finding themselves in dangerous sexual territory. The fact that Christian singles have to ask whether heavy petting and oral sex is wrong during dating shows how far they are pushing the sexual boundaries and it all usually starts with just kissing.