My Christian Dating Question Is How Do I Know He Is Really Into Me

How do you know a guy is really into you?

A lot of women find themselves asking this question, I mean the guy is saying all the right things, he is doing all the right things, he calls you almost every hour “just to see how you are doing” he seems to tick all the boxes but you are still unsure within yourself whether he means it or not and whether he is genuine or just messing with you.

9 times out of 10 if a guy is calling you endlessly and texting you literally every other minute, and he really likes your company and wants to spend time with you then he probably is really into you and you should probably stop worrying so much.

On the other hand a guy can be doing all the right things to win you over because he has other intentions, intentions like taking advantage of you. So be careful, be careful not to make yourself too vulnerable too soon, be careful not to get too emotionally attached too soon, and certainly don’t get physically involved with the guy (whether he is genuine or not)

While most guys that are interested in you will probably have good intentions and be truly into you, you can't be sure because you don't know what's going on In his mind and only God knows the heart of people. Be sure to have boundaries and defenses.

Most guys that have ulterior motives like just wanting to sleep with you will back off when you don’t allow them such access to your body, they’ll get frustrated and go look for another prey. So make sure you test a guy for authenticity. No easy access because even a guy that’s really into you might start to back off if you make it too easy, men tend to appreciate what they worked hard to get more than the things that come easily.

There is nothing wrong in making a guy work hard for a relationship with you, in fact that’s one of the best ways to know whether he means everything he is saying. If he likes you as much as he says then he will do whatever it takes and wait for as long as it takes. But don’t make it too hard, still give him signs that you are interested if you like him so that he knows that he isn't chasing in vain.

Don't take a guys word for it just because he tells you he loves you, he could be deceiving you. Many women just melt when they hear those words, they assume the guy means it and they bring down their defenses, before they know it, he has carried out his bad intentions and stopped calling.

And commit everything to God, ask God to reveal the guys heart to you, ask God to reveal the intentions of this guy to you. God might just reveal to you in a dream that this guy that looks like an angel is just the devil in disguise.

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