Christian Dating Question - She Didnt Give Me Her Number But Asked For Mined Instead.

Got the following Christian dating question recently:

I approached a woman at church I explained to her I liked her and wanted to get to know her. After we talked I asked could I call her and instead of giving me her number she asked for mine. Did I get blew off?

Answer

From my personal experience, when a lady is interested, she will usually give you her number, it is possible that her asking for your number instead is a polite way of telling you she is not really interested. However, there are some women who don't like giving out their number even when they are interested so it's a hard one to call.

Give it sometime and see if she calls, if she doesn't call after about a week, then approach her again and tell her that you were expecting her call and tell her that it would be cool and okay for her to let you know if she isn't interested (be polite and friendly when you do this, you don't want to come across as desperate or confrontational, you just want her to know you are genuinely interested), let her know that you wouldn't be offended and wouldn't take it personally if she wasn't interested, but you just need to know so that you can move on.

If she is really interested then at this point she will let you know. Most women who are really interested stop playing hard to get at the thought of you stopping the chase, so if she's really interested she will give you a little encouragement or a little signal for you to keep chasing.

Like I always say, seek God before proceeding with the chase. Even if she likes you, there is no point proceeding if God isn't involved.

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