One of the common requests from ladies is Christian dating tips and clues on knowing if a guy they like equally likes them back. How can you know if he is interested?
A lot of ladies want to know if there are clues that they can use to determine whether a guy they are interested in is equally as interested in them.
It can be really difficult not knowing, I mean you are really into this guy and keep imagining what it would be like to be in a relationship with him, the problem is you don't know whether he likes you in that way especially if you don’t have any kind of relationship or friendship with him.
He might be a guy that you've been admiring from a distance, you've noticed him but you are not sure if he has noticed you or likes you in that way. It can be tricky trying to figure out if the guy likes you in this kind of instance.
It is a lot easier to find out if a guy that you are already friends with likes you in that romantic kind of way. There will usually be clues like...
*he will want to be around you regularly,
*he might be making enquiries to find out if there are any guys in your life that you are seeing or interested in, trying to find out if he has competition,
*he might casually ask you out on a date as "just friends",
*he might want to come to your house just to visit and hang out with you,
*he will probably make a good effort to ensure that he gets close to you and becomes good friends with you hoping that the friendship will lead to something greater.
I mean these are subtle clues but they can be signs that a guy is interested.
But what about if you are not friends with this guy, what if you've just been admiring him from a distance, may be you go to the same church or have been noticing him at different Christian events and really like him but you are not sure if he likes you back because he hasn't approached you and there hasn't been any rumours that he might be interested in you.
Well if a guy is equally checking you out from a distance one of the ways to know is If you notice him always looking at you discreetly and he quickly turns to look in another direction when you are about to catch him looking, that might be a clue that he likes you.
But after saying all that, you cant always assume that because these signs are present then a guy definitely likes you. There is no definitive rule only guesses and assumptions and assumptions as we all know can be wrong and they can also be right.
The only way to know for sure is if he eventually comes out with it and tells you himself.
You can however do some investigations, if you know any of his friends or someone close to him try and find out from the friend if he has mentioned whether he is interested in anyone and if there is a particular girl that he might be interested in. But you have to be creative and not make it obvious that you are asking because you are interested in him (unless or course you want him to know) because guaranteed his friend will tell him if he suspects that you are indirectly enquiring because you like him( yes guys gossip too! and probably more.)
You can even get a pastor at your church (if you attend the same church) to jokingly ask him if there is a particular girl he likes in the church without implicating you.
So that's my little piece of advice hope its helpful. After reading this if you need Christian dating tips on any issue you can use the form on the Ask your questions page to make your request
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