Can you give Me Some Christian Dating Tips For A First Date With A Christian Guy?

That first date can determine a lot of things, and you want to ensure it goes well especially if you really like the guy and he has shown interest as well by asking you to go on a date with him. If there is going to be a future for the two of you then that first date needs to go well.

It is important to make a good first impression because first impressions last. That first impression might be what determines if there will be other dates and the birth of a potential Christian courtship.

So here are some Christian dating tips for that first Christian date (in no particular order):

1. First of the Christian dating tips is to Relax; he is probably just as nervous as you are. He equally wants to make a good impression , especially if he really likes you, he's probably been having sleepless nights thinking about how not to mess up the date. So relax, don't be uptight and nervous.

2. Put yourself in a good mood before the date, listen to your favorite song, or do something that makes you happy. That happiness will show through on the date and make you appear friendly and fun to be with.

3. Stop worrying whether he really likes you, he asked you out on a date didn't he?

4. Fourth of the Christian dating tips is to Be honest, be you, be real. It is important not to put up a front on the date. Be you, don't pretend to be something you are not, don't pretend to like something or be interested in something when you really aren't because it will become more and more difficult to keep up the deceit if things progress. Be honest about who you are, be honest about what you do, don't try to be what you think the guy wants. If he is going to fall in love then let him fall In love with the real you.

5. Make sure the conversations you have engage the both of you. Allow him to speak, don't talk too much, don't spend the whole evening talking about yourself, allow him to tell you about himself, give him the opportunity to ask you questions to learn more about you, and if he is a shy kind of person then you might want to ask him questions about himself to get him to relax and open up but don't overdo it with the questions, too much questions can be a turn off. Ask him questions like what he does for a living, what his interests are, and most guys like sports, and cars so you can ask him about his favorite sport or car to get him talking.

6. Don't disclose too much personal information. It is only the first date so the guy doesn't need to know your life history yet. He is still technically a stranger so you don't know whether you can trust him with sensitive information about yourself yet.

Remember that the bible says that love covers a multitude of sins. If you disclose all the things about yourself that you are not proud of on the first date it might be a turn off for the guy depending on his maturity, but when a relationship has developed and there is trust and love, it will be easier for a guy to accept you even with your flaws because love has entered the equation.

7. Look good without coming across as trashy. There is nothing wrong with making yourself look attractive, but there is a fine line between looking attractive and looking trashy. Contrary to popular opinion, you don't have to let it all hang out to look sexy. You don't want to come across as easy. You want the guy to be attracted to you as a person and not your chest or your rare end, you want him looking at you and not your chest when you are having a conversation.

A relationship built on lust and attraction alone never lasts and besides no real Christian guy would want you to expose yourself to the rest of the world, he doesn't want someone who could be his potential wife to be sharing her goodies with the whole world. There are nice dresses and outfits you can wear that don't reveal everything yet still make you look sexy elegant and classy. Make sure your makeup is nicely done but not too heavy, nice accessories to go with your outfit, nice shoes and bag that compliment your outfit. Let the guy see you and think wow!

8. Last of the Christian dating tips is to Smell good. Body odor and mouth odor are a big turn off. So make sure you freshen up before the date especially if you have had a hard day at work. If possible go home first and freshen up before meeting up for the date. Have a shower to relax yourself, brush your teeth and use some mouth wash and put on your best perfume. Remember the story of Esther in the bible and how she prepared herself to go and meet the king, well you could be meeting your potential king and husband so make sure you are looking good, men are visual creatures so to a certain extent you have to appeal to their visual nature.

Okay back to smelling good, yeah! Make sure you smell good, if you are not able to go home and freshen up first then carry your perfume with you, touch up your make up and get some mints - don't take any chances, remember first impressions count, you don't want him thinking that you always have body odor or mouth odor so take extra measures in this areas. Nothing turns a guy off quicker than a bad smell, it makes you come across as unhygienic and makes you look like you don't look after yourself.

So hope you found those Christian dating tips helpful. Let us know how the date goes.

oh! one more thing, if you are going to lunch or dinner, make sure you don't chew too loud, and eat with style and grace not like someone who hasn't had a meal in days, no matter how hungry you are.

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