Some Dating Advice For Women Who Are Not Sure About When Is The Right Time To Go To His House

Dating advice for women - When should you go to his house?

One of the common dating questions a lot of Christian women ask is how long they should wait before visiting a guy at his house.

Christian ladies worry that if they visit a guy at his house too early on or too soon after they begin dating him, then the guy might think that they are too easy, on the other hand they also worry that if they take too long before agreeing to come to a guys house then that might turn him off because he might start to think that they're too spiritual or boring.

I have found that many other websites don't cover this issue when offering dating advice for women, especially the Christian dating advice sites, so I've decided to share my thoughts on this topic.

As a general rule of thumb I would suggest that the first few dates should be on neutral ground. As a guy, I believe that a man needs to prove himself worthy of a relationship with a woman Before he gets any special privileges such as having the privilege to have you visit his house, he needs to have earned that privilege first.

Part of earning that privilege is taking the time to get to know you first, taking you out on dates to restaurants and movies etc and paying for those dates, I am straight up old school and I believe that a guy should pay for dates, at least until a formal relationship or courtship has been established, after that a woman can chip in once in a while.

When a guy has taken the time and respects you enough to want go get to know you first before getting too serious or involved with you, and when you have assessed him thoroughly and feel confident that his intentions and motives are right, then I believe you are in a position where it would be okay to visit him at his house.

Ladies there really is no need to rush the process, I guess the fear for most women when they really like a guy is that they want to make sure that they don't lose him and they don't want to do anything to mess things up with him, which is understandable, but at the same time you want to keep your pride and dignity intact and not make yourself look cheap, eager or desperate.

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If a guy really likes you then he'll do whatever it takes and wait however long he needs to wait and a good guy wouldn't force you or rush you to come to his house anyway unless he has other motives.

I believe that going to a guy's house should come at a stage in the relationship where you have both taken the time to get to know eachother and decided that you want to establish something more serious.

It can be cool and okay to go to his house before that, but just be careful not to send the wrong signals while at his house, like going to his bedroom and lying down on his bed. Once you start doing that you are in dangerous territory. In some cases it's not so much how long you wait before going to his house but what you when you are at his house.

Also before going to his house have a plan for what the day will entail, ask yourself why you are going to his house and what are you going to do when you get there. Have some activities planned and have an agenda otherwise you might find yourself doing some other things with him that you didn't plan for simply because you failed to plan, and as the saying goes - those that fail to plan, plan to fail, also be sure not to go to his house late in the evening, go early and leave early, the longer you are there, the more relaxed you might get and before you know it you might let your guard down and cross some boundaries you shouldn't cross especially if you really like him and are already developing feelings for him.

If you do go to his house set yourself a time that you have to be out of his house, and if possible go with a friend, if he has a problem with you coming with a third party then maybe he has other plans in mind, plans that he won't be able to carry out if someone else is there (if you know what I mean!) in which case you have to ask yourself do you really want to go to his house!

So those are my thoughts on the whole going to his house thing, once again my dating advice for women on this issue is to make going to his house a privilege that he has to earn and also only go when you have established something concrete with him and you both know exactly where you stand with eachother and finally to be careful what you do and the signals you are sending out when you are at his house.

Hope that helps