How He'll show it

As a Christian guy who is my first year of college, I have had a lot of experience watching other guys pursue women and experience pursuing them myself. I can say that again, he will make it very obvious. If he doesn't, chances are he's either a) not mature enough to handle a relationship or b) hasn't had good coaching in the dating department.

A past dating mistake of mine is that I waited 13 months while praying over whether to date a girl. While this may not sound bad, I waited way too long. I should have prayed about it for a month or two, then when I didn't feel God's push against it, I should have pursued her and asked. When I did ask, she was already being pursued by another guy and I lost my chance. It surely is God's will for me to meet someone else, but I won't make the same mistake on timing twice.

I am now pursuing a girl up at school, and I just straight up told her that I wanted to take her out to dinner. When she wasn't free one night, I waited a week or two so she doesn't get the impression that I'm needy (which I'm not) and then I asked her out again. This time, with success. She became sick, and was out of school for a week. I took her food and medicine to show her that I was willing to take care of her even though we hadn't even gone out yet, and took time to get to know her other friends, while pursuing Christ.

We are now going out this weekend, and I plan on being even more direct that I want to pursue her, as in courtship. Whether she rejects me or not, at least she will know. Moral of the story: Almost all mature, relationship-ready, Christian men will make it extraordinarily clear to you within a few weeks. (Granted her signals helped solidify my decision, but I would have went after her anyways)