i dont think it's wrong

by Olamide Maud Osidele
(Lagos,Nigeria)

i believe kissing is ordinarily not bad,but could be terrible if 1's doing it with the wrong person. i am a struggling christian and a very free spirited one(that even makes it worse for me). i believe if i am dating a good christian and he allows us kiss,then i will be rest assured it most likely wont lead to any form of fornication. but if i am dating an unbeliever,then i will have to be extra careful. so to round it all, i will say it is okay to kiss but if we cant control it,then we just try hard and wait on the lord for strength to stand even when we are romantically involved with someone who just takes the whole of us away.

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Dec 13, 2009
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Very True However NEW
by: Anonymous

Hey Olamide,

Thats very true however we have the same flesh as unbelievers we have the same romantic feelings and believe it or not we have the same sexual drives and emotional stuffs lol. so wether its a christian or not really doesnt change anything, the only difference between us and unbelivers is in our Spirit and nothing to do with our abilty to withstand anything, thats why you can get a devoted christian finding themselves in sin.

if we are trying to abstain from sex before marriage then kissing should definatly be a no go area, it may not be sin, however it will most definatly lead to sin, maybe not the first time nor the 2nd time nor the 3rd but we can be assured that someday it will go deeper and deeper remember we dont jump into sin we fall or some would say slide its a gradual process.

Kissing i personally believe is an un neccesary arousal of sexual organs, its like putting on the oven full heat 5 years before you want to cook the chicken, some day proberbly sooner rather than later it will burn the house down.

The bibble doesnt say we should resist temptation but flee it, 'flee youthful lusts' we could assume this can be related to kissing. 2 timothy 2:22

Blessings

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