No, It is the Man's duty
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I believe that it is the man's duty, out of love and respect for his potential or established partner, to pay for most of the dates, especially if the date was his idea. As stated in your message above, it shows your lady that you are not only capable, but willing, to take the financial burden upon yourself and take care of her and her needs.
It is the man's duty, under God's rule, to provide for his mate, and establish his role as head of the household, and that includes financial burdens. That isn't to say that, on every single date, or every single occasion, he should flip the bill, because there are some instances where the man cannot afford to, and he wasn't the one who suggested the date.
In some cases, it shows an extreme amount of love and respect from the lady when she understands this and helps pitch in to help - speaking from experience, this makes a guy feel very cherished and respected that, when he is unable to step up to the plate, his lady friend steps up to take care of him when he needs it. Not to say that a habit should be made of this, because the reversal of roles in this particular instance is a sign of true love and caring and should not be taken advantage of.
As a general rule however, the role of a true gentleman and Godly man is to take the responsibility on himself in an effort to provide and care for his lady.
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