One Thing Led To Another Book Review

I really enjoyed reading this book because it dealt with the nitty gritty, the real issues, the “taboo” issues that very few want to address because they want to be politically correct, yet these are the very same issues that are causing singles so much pain and confusion leaving most helpless and not knowing what to do.

As someone who works with singles and often gives advice and counsel to singles, I have finally found a book that deals with and addresses a lot of the difficult questions I get asked by singles, a book that highlights and gives insight to the root and cause of some of the challenges singles are facing in their dating and courtship experience.

I especially liked this book because of the uncompromising stand of the author, in an age where many are compromising and diluting their advice and encouraging singles to take short cuts, here is an author whose counsel is uncompromisingly scripture based even addressing the impact of issues such as provocative dressing and how it sends out the wrong signals, something I personally connected with because in the attempt to be fashionable and attractive many are unknowingly sending out the wrong signals and then wonder why they keep being approached and falling for the wrong kind of guys that end up taking advantage of them. I was glad that the author addressed this in this book because it is an issue that is often overlooked.

As I read the book I saw in there some games that I had played as a single, but it wasn’t until I read this book that I realised that I had been playing those games when I was still a single man. It made me realise that there are possibly many singles today, playing unhealthy games in their relationships without knowing it, by reading this book they will not only realise they are playing those games but will also become aware of the possible dangers and pitfalls of playing such games.

A very easy to read book because of the writing style of the author, the language of the author is easy to follow and digest. I decided to read the book in one sitting from cover to cover and it took me just 2 hours and I am not a fast reader by any means, so it is a book you can read in its entirety really quickly not one of those books you start reading but never get round to finishing because it is so long.

Wherever you are as a single, the chances are you will see yourself in this book, the author has covered so many areas that you are bound to be playing one of those games knowingly or unknowingly or identifying with some of the personality and character traits highlighted, this book will help you to recognise it and show you what to do so that you don’t destroy your chances of finding and settling down with the right partner for your life.

I like that the author not only covered the emotional games that singles play with eachother games, but I especially liked the fact that the author was brave enough to talk about the unhealthy sexual games that singles play which leads to some compromising their stand, values and faith. The solo sex (masturbation) games and the advice about how to overcome masturbation is something I will use to counsel others who are still struggling with the issue, the “we are going to get married anyway excuse” the “heavy petting, doing everything else but not having intercourse excuse” and thinking that it’s okay to perform oral sex with eachother because penetration hasn’t taken place, the “if you love me then you will sleep with me blackmail” I mean I just have to give it to the author, she really did a fantastic job and covered a lot of ground and if you ever had any questions about the gray areas when it comes to the issue of sex in courtship and dating then this book is just what you need to find answers.

I also recommend this book to married people who still have unresolved issues from their life as a single, this book will help you to realise how some of your past actions as a single may be the root cause of the challenges in your marriage today and as a result you will be able to find help, solution and healing.

I liked the practical tools in the book such as the questions you should ask a potential mate to discern if they are right for you and the prophetic prayers that will deliver you from the mistakes of the past and set you on course to be blessed in your relationship.

The book will also be a great source of encouragement to the single who is growing tired of waiting for Mr or Mrs Right. It is a book that will enlighten you so that you don’t get taken advantage of, it will help you avoid the pitfalls to delays in marriage and unnecessary heart break from unhealthy relationships.

I really really loved this book and I can’t say that about many books I have read, as someone that counsels singles this book will help me to provide better counsel and understand the root of the many issues, challenges and struggles singles face, it is a book that I will definitely read over and over again and use as a reference book when teaching or counselling singles.

If asked to give the book marks out of 10, I would give it an 11. It over delivers! A must read and one that I will definitely recommend for every single to read.

Pastor Grace, thanks for writing this book, it is timely relevant and will help and deliver many.

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