Promiscuity in church?

by Osidele Maud
(Lagos Nigeria)

I wont attack this question as a full Christian simply because am not.

Why, cause i don't live by all them guidelines in the word, but i will all the same try share my view on this issue the best way i can.

this is one issue that weighs on ma mind a lot cause like many christians out there,i also face these temptations and all that.

To have sex outside marriage is WRONG!!! i know,he knows,she knows, we all know. but yet we commit this atrocity. what then is wrong? why do we just continue to live in this sin? to start tackling this, I'd say no fornicating "christian" needs a "good christian" to come up to him or her with an accusative,rebuking or condemning tone.

this is because any right thinking young christian who's having sex is most likely not gonna be happy about it. sex was kept for marriage most likely cos God know how addictive and soul effective this thing.

the first step i think to make anybody involved in sexual promiscuity of any type(fornication or adultery)is making such person to understand that sex isn't just two people who feel like ribbing bodies together for some so called heated and enjoyable romance, but a serious covenant between the souls of the people involved.

i say this because i belief the knowledge of the fact every time u take to bed or are being taken to bed by anybody who's not your husband/wife, u r making a covenant with that person. not a covenant for money, but 1 of the soul. this is one thing that makes me run away from sex, i gotta be honest here, it's not like i don't sometimes crave to feel a guy and all that but i stop to ask myself "if i go ahead to do this,would i be able to play to the end ,ma part of the bargain?,

if i go on like this,how many covenants would i make and be in debt of before i die?". i belief this is enough to make any christian who understands what a covenant is to desist from sex.

it ain't easy but we really need to FLEE from all forms of temptations. don't wait till the signs r extra clear before u take to your heels. cause by the time the signs are clear, it just might be TOO LATE TO FLEE!!!