Should You Abort An Unplanned Pregnancy Because You can't Bare The Shame Of People Knowing That You Have Been Having Sex Outside Marriage.

You have to realise that you are carrying something special, children are a gift from God, and the fact that you are pregnant is a blessing, it might not feel that way now because of the circumstances that surround the pregnancy, you probably feel scared, scared of the future, scared of what people will think, scared of how your parents might react, you might even feel ashamed that you compromised your faith and allowed yourself to fall into this mess.

You might even be worried about how you are going to look after and provide for the child, maybe the guy that got you pregnant doesn't want the child and is pressurising you to get rid of it, and even if the guy hasn't left you or pressurised you to get rid of the baby, you both just don't feel ready for the responsibility of bringing a child into the world and as a result you are contemplating aborting the pregnancy.

When you put all your fears aside, you will realise that what you have is a blessing; children are a gift and not some inconvenient thing that you should just get rid of. Just think about this for a second, there are plenty of women out there who have been praying to God for years to have a child and you want to abort yours! Yes you might not have bargained to find yourself in this situation but the unborn child is not to be blamed for that or penalised for that.

Yes it was a mistake, yes it wasn't meant to happen, but it has happen. You shouldn't abort the pregnancy because of the shame of getting pregnant outside of wedlock, if people want to judge you for that, that's their problem, but that child inside you deserves to live. Don't kill a child just because you want to protect your image, that is a selfish thing to do.

You have to realise that, to you, that pregnancy might be a mistake, but to God, that pregnancy is not a mistake and that is why you should never abort a pregnancy, even if you didn't plan to get pregnant. That child inside you has a purpose and a destiny, it might just look like an insignificant foetus at the moment but what you are carrying inside you is destiny and if you abort that child, you are aborting destiny, that child inside you has been designed by God and placed in your womb to come and deliver something great to the world and if you abort the pregnancy, you are stopping destiny from being fulfilled and robbing the world of the gift placed in that child, you are indirectly opposing the plan of God.

You must also realise that you can't play God, only God has the right to decide who lives and who dies, besides you don't know the potential that lies in that unborn child, you don't know whether that foetus in your womb is the next Bill Gates, or a future president or prime minster, for all you know that foetus inside you could be one of the greatest men of God that will ever live.

Imagine Bill Gates mum aborted him, imagine if the great tennis players, the Williams sisters were aborted, imagine if Barak Obama was aborted, imagine if Billy Graham was aborted, imagine if I had been aborted, you wouldnt be watching this video right now, imagine if John the Baptist was aborted, imagine if Jesus was aborted - we would have been robbed of some of the greatest people that have graced this planet called earth, the fact is you don't know the destiny of that child you are carrying. Abortion is too costly. DONT DO IT.

You might suffer temporary shame and inconvenience, but that is nothing compared to the joy that child will bring you once it's here and like I said, you don't know the potential greatness that's inside that unborn child you are carrying. PLEASE DONT KILL DESTINY BEFORE IT HAS EVEN BEEN BORN.

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